I have now experienced three of the most life-changing transitions one can attempt during midlife: leaving corporate to start a business, moving cities, and divorce.
Transitions, like divorce or career changes, often force us to walk a path that was not our first choice, whether by our own making or thrust upon us.
Preparing for her third move in five years, Sunel reflects on the emotional weight of “stuff” and the freedom of letting go. Each box holds a story—and offers a new perspective on the things she truly values, beyond the clutter and chaos of everyday life.
Sunél reflects on the power of letting go of cherished outcomes and embracing life with less attachment to specific results. Inspired by a Celtic poem, she explores how this shift in mindset can reduce disappointment and create space for unexpected joys. Sunél encourages readers to step into the unknown with a sense of curiosity, allowing life’s surprises to unfold naturally.
Sunél’s first solo trip to Rome was more than an escape—it was a chance to reconnect with herself and find clarity. Surrounded by the city's beauty, she took time to unplug, reflect, and embrace the freedom of creating her own reality. In this post, Sunél encourages others to carve out moments of solitude, block out the noise, and protect their peace amid the chaos of the world.
Sunél admits that she still sometimes falls into the trap of wanting to be right—it feels smart, after all. But over time, she’s come to realize that the pursuit of being "right" is often a delusion. Instead, she now approaches decisions as choices, each with its own consequences. In this post, Sunél reflects on the power of letting go of perfection and embracing the freedom that comes with making choices.
Imagine embracing the freedom of retirement - where the pressure of obligations fades, and meaningful moments and passions take center stage. To really live!